Archive for February, 2009

Dear Friends and members, There are many different aspects that live inside of us and two of them I respectfully dubbed the Dreamer and Doubter. When it comes to pursuing our dreams, The Dreamer is often gung ho while the Doubter can provide a laundry list of concerns and issues. After a speech in Rome, a woman with a beautiful accent asked me to tell her one of my personal dreams. Assuming I’d never see her again, I decided to share a dream I had never spoken out loud, one I had kept such a good secret that even I was beginning to forget it. “My dream is to spend the summer writing in the Greek Islands,” I said all in one breath. She handed me her card and replied, “I have a villa in Greece. Why don’t you come as my guest?” I was floored and reminded that amazing things happen when we share our dreams. I was elated, or more accurately, part of me was. Here’s a peek inside my head. See if this kind of interchange sounds familiar. Dreamer : I am so excited! Doubter : Not me. I don’t like this at all. It’s far away and could be dangerous. Dreamer : Nonsense. This is my dream handed to me on a silver platter. Doubter/Realist (they’re close cousins): Who is going to run your business while you’re away? Dreamer : My fabulous team whom I completely trust. Doubter : Well, how’s it going to look to your clients that you are out of the country for three months? Dreamer : I think as a Dream Coach, it’s going to look pretty good. When you are stuck, procrastinating or worrying, chances are your Doubter has taken over. If ignored, it can sabotage your dreams. So how do you deal with it? Turn the volume down a notch and the Doubter simply becomes the Realist, the part that wants to know where the time and money will come from for your venture. But before you turn down the Doubter, hear from it. It will give you valuable information such as a list of obstacles that you can manage later. Freedom comes as you appreciate its wisdom and insight rather than judging it as the enemy. If you never deal with your doubt and you meet another Doubter on the road, their doubt will magnify yours. However, if you have worked with your own doubt, next time a Doubter challenges you, by contrast it will be the opportunity to deepen your commitment and conviction to your dream. These were some excerpts from Dreams are Whispers from the Soul by Marcia Wieder. Click here to watch the clip… Dreams are Whispers from the Soul Marcia Wieder is Founder of Dream University with over twenty years coaching, training and speaking experience. Marcia has appeared on Oprah, The Today Show, in her own PBS-TV special and is past president of the National Association of Women Business Owners. Aseem Kaistha It’s your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude.

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ADAPTING TO CHANGE:

Adapting to change as I mention most weeks is about the fear of a ‘What If’ moment. As we know a WHAT IF is an ILLUSION, so what you are fearing is only an illusion.

Most fear is about WHAT IF’s. If we could only see how peculiar that fear actually is, we may have a route to overcome it.

Another strong factor in amplifying fear is the tone in which we describe it. If you immediately respond to a situation and call it a problem, then sub-consciously you are dealing with a difficult situation. If you change that habit from calling something a problem to calling it a challenge, then life is sweeter as you can fire yourself up easier to deal with a challenge.

Today’s material is more of an excerpt from a book or a speech. The author is unknown, so it is difficult to attribute it to a particular occasion, but the words are strong enough to get the message across.

END YOUR DIFFICULTIES

Will today be a difficult day for you?

That depends on whether or not you decide to make it one. Just about anything can be difficult when you make the active decision to consider
it so.

We often assume that things such as focused effort, discipline, commitment, and persistence are difficult, and as such are to be avoided if at all possible. Yet that is just an opinion. When you think about it, “difficult” and “easy” are very arbitrary terms. Thinking of something as difficult, just makes it that much more difficult.

So what’s the purpose of it?

Imagine what would happen if instead of thinking, “This is hard work and I can just barely tolerate it,” you thought “This is necessary work and I’m thankful that I’m able to do it.”

Making judgments about whether something is difficult or easy doesn’t contribute anything to the level of accomplishment. Stop categorizing tasks as difficult and you’ll no longer have to do anything difficult.

Just do what needs to be done and truly enjoy the fulfilling road to achievement.

(Unknown Author)

QUOTE: “Nothing is a waste of time if your experience wisely.”

(Rodin)

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Every Monday Matters…52 Ways to Make a Difference Dr. Martin Luther King said, “Everyone has the power of greatness; not for fame, but greatness. Because greatness is determined by service.”…

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Periodically I get asked about diets and acupuncture for weight-loss. My standard answer includes something about the basic fact that weight loss is difficult and there is no magic pill. Eating a healthy, balanced diet is critical and developing a regular exercise program is a must. Still many people tell be that they are eating well and exercising, but for some reason cannot lose the weight. In this case, with acupuncture and herbs we work on improving the metabolism. Others have difficulty developing a healthy lifestyle, that includes a balanced diet (no, the 4 food groups are not fast food, junk food, chocolate and coffee) coupled with regular exercise. In this case the practitioner works with the patient to help them get through the roadblocks in developing a healthy lifestyle. This can be an ongoing process. The topic of Diets opens up a large can of worms. Their are so many Diets out there, and everyone seems to be The Expert on what to eat. Here’s my take: focus on a balanced diet that emphasizes fresh whole foods, including organic produce, grains and protein sources. Obviously avoid ‘empty calories’: ‘foods’ that taste great (even are addictive) with low nutritional content and high calories. Read labels and avoid chemicals and words you don’t understand. Whole foods are the entire food, unprocessed (lots of nutrients get lost when foods are canned and frozen). This means avoiding even processed grains, such as flour and baked goods. Instead eat whole grains: rice, quinoa, amaranth, millet and so on. (You’ll find all of these in the bulk section of the natural food store, such as Whole Foods, Earthfare, Greenlife, and food co-ops). Anna Maria Colbin discusses this concept at length and has authored many books on the subject. I studied with her at the Natural Gourmet Cooking School (http://www.naturalgourmetschool.com/) when I lived in NYC, and am heavily influence by her ideas and approach because it just makes sense. Anna Marie talks about how to tell if something is a fad diet. Here’s a few tests: How long has The Diet been around? Less than 5y, 1y? FAD Are your food options severely restricted to a few odd items: grapefruit, pancakes, etc? FAD Do you just follow the diet for a specified time period: say a few weeks or until you lose the weight, and then go onto another way of eating? FAD Does the diet prescribe a way of eating the is healthy to continue for the long term, or are there food groups, vitamins and minerals and so on that are missing from the diet so that it would be unhealthy to eat that way as a life practice? FAD Did the Diet come from a book that sold so many copies that the author (usually a doctor) made a lot of money and became a celebrity? FAD So what you are looking for in terms of diet is a way of eating that will sustain you in an optimal level of health for the long term; hence, eating a balanced diet based upon whole foods . The New England Journal of Medicine just published the largest-ever study of weight loss methods which concluded that it doesn’t matter whether one follows low carbs, low fats, Atkins, Dean Ornish, Mediterranean diet, the main thing is to control calories. All of these various approaches yield the same percentage results of weight-loss and maintenance. I’ve included a New York Times article discussing the study results, below. This copy is for your personal, noncommercial use only. You can order presentation-ready copies for distribution to your colleagues, clients or customers here or use the “Reprints” tool that appears next to any article. Visit www.nytreprints.com for samples and additional information. Order a reprint of this article now. February 26, 2009 Study Zeroes In on Calories, Not Diet, for Loss By TARA PARKER-POPE For people who are trying to lose weight, it does not matter if they are counting carbohydrates , protein or fat. All that matters is that they are counting something. That is the finding of the largest-ever controlled study of weight-loss methods published on Wednesday in The New England Journal of Medicine . More than 800 overweight adults in Boston and Baton Rouge, La., were assigned to one of four diets that reduced calories through different combinations of fat, carbohydrates and protein. Each plan cut about 750 calories from a participant’s normal diet , but no one ate fewer than 1,200 calories a day. While the diets were not named, the eating plans were all loosely based on the principles of popular diets like Atkins, which emphasizes low carbohydrates; Dean Ornish , which is low-fat; or the Mediterranean diet, with less animal protein. All participants also received group or individual counseling. After two years, every diet group had lost — and regained — about the same amount of weight regardless of what diet had been assigned. Participants lost an average of 13 pounds at six months and had maintained about 9 pounds of weight loss and a two-inch drop in waist size after two years. While the average weight loss was modest, about 15 percent of dieters lost more than 10 percent of their weight by the end of the study. Still, after about a year many returned to at least some of their usual eating habits. The lesson, researchers say, is that people lose weight if they lower calories, but it does not matter how. “It really does cut through the hype,” said Dr. Frank M. Sacks, the study’s lead author and professor of cardiovascular disease prevention at the Harvard School of Public Health. “It gives people lots of flexibility to pick a diet that they can stick with.” Dr. Sacks said that to reduce bias the researchers avoided associating any of the diets with well-known commercial eating plans. While attendance at counseling sessions was linked with better weight loss, that was not true for every dieter. In some groups, people lost large amounts of weight even though they attended only a few counseling sessions. The real question for researchers, Dr. Sacks said, is what are the biological, psychological or social factors that influence whether a person can stick to any diet. “The effect of any particular diet group is minuscule, but the effect of individual behavior is humongous,” Dr. Sacks said. “We had some people losing 50 pounds and some people gaining five pounds. That’s what we don’t have a clue about. I think in the future, researchers should focus less on the actual diet but on finding what is really the biggest governor of success in these individuals.” Home Health Copyright 2009 The New York Times Company

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There lived in Nepal a person named Prashanta. Prashanta was very skilled in computers and made a lot of useful software that he used togive to his co-workers for free. His co-workers recognized his skill and used to praise him very highly, but Prashanta never seemed to be affected by their praise and would continue his simple ways. One day there was a crisis in the IT department. They desperately needed software for extracting images from their old database and inserting into the new one. All of them suggested Prashanta to make it and he calmly agreed and set about making it. The finished product was very professional looking and worked wonderfully. Everyone was pleased with the software and highly praised Prashanta, but he remained unaffected by their praise and would calmly thank them. Seeing his nonchalance a friend asked him how he could be so calm and unaffected when even the CEO himself was very pleased and excited about the software. “Don’t you feel proud to have created such a fine piece of software? Asked his friend. To his query Prashanta replied, “I am not the doer, I am simply the MEDIUM.” FROM: Vandana Chhatpar

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A lot of emphasis has been put on the winter solstice of 2012 as a point of transition, but like the moon that is full three days before and three days after the actual full moon, we have already entered this significant time. The ancient Vedic texts called this time the Kali Yuga, a time when humanity has reached the depths of selfish materialism. I don’t think there is any doubt that we are seeing this unfold before our eyes daily…and yet still most people seem oblivious to the tremendous changes that are taking place. It has been determined that on the solstice of 2012 the Earth will come into precise alignment with the galactic center. What this means exactly is up for debate. However, one thing that is becoming clear is that there are going to be significant fundamental changes to our lives and the way we live. I’m beginning to look at this time as a moment of opportunity for consicous evolution. It is there waiting for those who are ready for it while everyone else will be caught up in the fear and chaos of the changes. Now, more than ever, it is imperative that we get our own house in order. We need to have our physical body in a healthy state - srtong, flexible and free of chemicals and poisons….and we need our mind calm, clear and able to react to whatever situations we are presented with… Most importantly, we need to open our hearts and reconnect with the Earth. For to long we have taken from her for our selfish needs without acknowledgement of the lifeforce energy she provides us. The Earth will survive for millennia to come, if the human race is to continue to have a purpose on this planet we need to get our act together. We have passed the time for debate about whether climate change, overpopulation and depleted resources are real problems. If you think that we will soon be returning to unlimited economic growth, rampant expansion and magic technological breakthroughs that will end our dependency on fossil fuel…nevermind.

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I was just wat ching Dr. Wayne Dyer’s Power of Intention on PBS this afternoon. He highlighted some interesting medical research on the health benefits of preforming acts of kindness. Apparently researchers have studied the effects of acts of kindness on both the giver, receiver and the witnesses and have concluded that preforming acts of kindness increases serotonin levels and strengthens immune function in both the giver, receiver and witnesses of acts of kindness. Serotonin’s are brain neurotransmitters, a type of endorphin. Increased levels in serotonin’s are seen in happy people: increased endorphin levels are the brain chemicals responsible for the ‘runners high’. Many of the anti-depressant drugs function to increase brain serotonin levels. Researchers have found that witnessing, giving or receiving acts of kindness will increase these brain chemicals, in addition to strengthing immune function. It doesn’t get more empowering than that! KB

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There once was a King who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried. The King looked at all the pictures, but there were only two he really liked and he had to choose between them. One picture was of a calm lake. The lake was a perfect mirror, for peaceful towering mountains were all around it. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. All who saw this picture thought that it was a perfect picture of peace. The other picture had mountains too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky from which rain fell and in which lightening played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. This did not look peaceful at all. But when the King looked, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest… Perfect peace. Which picture do you think won the prize? The King chose the second picture. Do you know why? “Because,” explained the King, “peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace.” Aseem Kaistha It’s your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude.

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Podcast Episode 45: Am I Buddhist Enough? Welcome back, this is Daily Buddhism audio show number forty-five. My name is Brian Schell, and I am the your host for the show. You can find the text as well as all links mentioned in this program and all past episodes on the website at www.dailybuddhism.com. Please send in Post from: Daily Buddhism , by Brian Schell Podcast Episode 45: Am I Buddhist Enough?

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Suiwo, the disciple of Hakuin, was a good teacher. During one summer seclusion period, a pupil came to him from a southern island of Japan. Suiwo gave him the problem: “Hear the sound of one hand.” The pupil remained three years but could not pass this test. One night he came in tears to Suiwo. “I must Post from: Daily Buddhism , by Brian Schell Koan: Three Days More

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